Showing posts with label Mamublogs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mamublogs. Show all posts

Saturday, May 16, 2015

Memory Improvement Techniques

Dear Sparshu,

Let me be frank with you, I never had good short term memory. I could never remember dates and events of history books, and also neither good in remembering places river, etc from geography books in school. I was good in Maths and Science as that did not require remembering things, it was more of analytic ability, however as I see now having a good memory is important, not only in school but also in daily life and work life.




Nowadays I rely on technology to remember things, but I saw this wonderful program today on National Geographic about how to improve our memory, and I thought of sharing it with you. I hope this helps you in school days and also in your life. I am too gonna try these techniques from now, and I am pretty positive it would work.


First technique is breaking up things into chunks. For example if you want to remember a 12 digit number like 304832146043 it would be difficult ,as there is a limitation of how much data we can remember in short term memory. Try breaking this into chunks like 3048-3214-6043. Now it would be much easier to remember these 12 digits, as effectively your brain is counting this as 3 chunks or 3 numbers rather than 12. You can try this technique to remember phone numbers, social security numbers, bank account numbers, etc


Second technique is imagination. Let’s say if you want to remember few things in order, let’s say a list of continents in alphabetical order.  So what you want to remember is:  Africa , Antarctica, Asia, Australia, Europe, North America and South America. Close your eyes and imagine your home, there is an African Lion sitting on the couch in the hall, there is ice cream from Antarctica in the kitchen fridge, there is hot Indian food on the platform, there is a Kagaroo in your playing room, Statue of Liberty in the office room, Rockefeller tower in the guest bedroom and Brazil soccer t-shirt inside the closet of the guest bed room. You can have your own imagination too or use this if you like. Keep your eyes and sink it in, then open your eyes and you would be able to easily recall the list of continents in alphabetical order. It’s about imagination and relating it to daily life.


 Third technique is the first alphabet technique. Let’s say you want to remember a list of items to get from Walmart or any other list but not in any particular order, this technique would be very useful. Let’s say for eg you want to remember the list for shopping: Milk, Curd, Cupcakes, Burritos, Nachos, Pink Lemonade, Pretzels, Chipotle, Burger, Salad, Juice and French fries. Seems difficult doesn’t it.  These are 12 items, what you can do it pick first letter of each item: mccbnppcbsjf. Now make any random meaningful or meaningless story with one word for each of these letter. For eg. ‘Mom can cook (in)butter (but)not proper paneer. Can be successful January February.’ It is easier to remember these 2 sentences, it need not be meaningful and then you would be able to recall the list of items easily.


Finally it happens a lot of times when we enter a room to get something, and we forget what we had come for. This happens as the door of the room acts as a kinda reset of short term memory. To avoid this talk to yourself what you are coming in the room to get or to find while you are entering. For eg, say keys keys keys while entering, in that way you would remember what you came in the room for.

As you grow up, you would also have access to technology, use them as well to remember things and make to do lists. It is very important to have a to-do list, you do not forget anything and it is a very important aspect for being successful. However also make sure you keep your brain sharp and memory strong, it would help you a lot in school, work and life. Practice above techniques and you will get better at them and more smart and effective….Love you Bhanju!!!

Yours Lovingly,
Mamu

Wednesday, April 1, 2015

The Importance of Moderation and Self-care

Dear Sparshu,

Currently I am 29 years old I have over 5 and a half years of experience in IT field. Working in IT field in India has lot of perks and good compensation as well. However, with all these facilities also come some health and stress issues. Always remember there are pros and cons of everything in life, you should do whatever you enjoy, and accept your job with its perks and also by accepting its cons. I currently work in a 24 X 6 shift model but I accept it and focus on my work, and enjoy. I don’t have to stretch compared to normal 9 to 5 ‘ers who often end up going 9 to 9. There are many other perks as well like free cab facility. So point is enjoy what you do and never compare yourself to anyone or anyone’s job. Always remember: Look in the mirror, that’s your competition!

This post is for you when you start working, so it may not make sense earlier, but when you reach my present age this would be relevant so I want to give you some important advice based on my own life experiences. Second thing I would like to tell you is the importance of moderation in life. Always have everything in moderation in life what it means is don’t overdo anything you like. You should do everything in life, but in moderation. Also remember always stay away from smoking, alcohol and other such bad things, you are an American citizen residing in US but never forget your Indian culture and values.

Third and final thing is work life balance. You may have graduated from a top university and earning in 6 figure and having a house in Manhattan or similar place, but if you are not doing good health wise it is of no use. You should make sure that you are healthy all the time. Always remember your health comes first. If you are not healthy you are not happy, it is ok if you are not earning 6 figures but it is very much important to be healthy and happy. As you go towards late twenties and early thirties you would be occupied with work, make sure you exercise regularly as soon as you start working full time. Learn some yoga, pranayama and meditation as well. Mental health is equally important as physical health. Your wonderful parents would always be there to guide you and tell you all this, these are just my 2 cents for my dear bhanju. Finally wishing you a fantastic healthy life, lots of love and happiness, and an illustrious career in life! Love you bhanju!  

Yours Lovingly,
Mamu

Wednesday, February 18, 2015

Sparshu's 1st Birthday

Dear Sparshu,

 I am writing this after quite a while. I will try to cover up as much as possible on this very special and auspicious occasion of your 1st Happy Birthday. I was going through #Mamulogs and what I have written till now. The joyous moment when you were born, the happiness when you first came home, your first month birth anniversary  and your fourth month birth anniversary.  It felt great to know that time has flown so fast, you are one year old now, and you will just keep growing, I feel sad I am not there with you but believe me my best wishes, and blessings are always with you.

 I have earlier quoted about Abraham Lincoln, and also given you some lessons in life which I have learnt through my own life. I remember when I was growing up, many times I did not get what I wanted, many times I was not happy with my parents not allowing me few things, but as I see it now, it was all for my own good. What I am today, I owe a lot to my parents, my sister (your mom) and my jiju (your dad). What I am trying to tell you is sometimes you may not be happy with some things, but always remember, whatever your parents decide is for your own good. You may feel bad for time being, but when you grow up you would realize and be thankful to them.

 You would be going to school, college, and eventually working. You would meet a lot of people, and encounter a lot of situations, where you may have to decide between 2 or more options. I have faced this a lot, and everyone faces this. Always remember to live by your principles, a man is defined by his principles, always choose the right path. There is no shortcut to success. There is no thing like free breakfast. Remember, life is 10% situation and 90% how you react to them. So, think before you take any decision, take guidance and advice from parents and your good friends if you need it. Never be afraid of failure, be afraid of not trying, and live a life without regrets, make every moment count. Finally count life in your years and not years in your life!

I am sure you would have a wonderful birthday party. Along with this letter, I am also attaching a card I prepared for you, I wish you all the happiness and health in the world...God Bless!    

Yours lovingly,
Mamu!











Thursday, June 19, 2014

18th June, 2014

 Another date blog post, and a post after long time! I had pretty hectic work in office for last 3 months, was feeling tired, took a vacation and went to Gujarat. Visited Rajkot, Baroda, Anand and Bhanvangar. 4 cities in 9 days, lots of siblings masti, lots of home food, card games, and eventually gaining a few kilos at the end of it all!

 I visited Rajkot first, I was really surprised by the amount of development in Rajkot, I could see lots of premium apartment buildings, actually more than I have seen in Mumbai. The highways in Gujarat are also incredible, to be frank I have visited US, and some top cities in Gujarat have infrastructure facilities and development of similar to what you would find in the US!


 Did a lot of shopping in Rajkot, then I went to Bhavnagar, it is a very memorable place for me and my sister. We just used to love playing on the big swing in the yard outside the house and brushing in the open air tap every morning! As soon as I sat on the hichko, I felt an indescribable feeling, it was good, it was happiness, it was wonderful indeed! Went to our kud-devta Dhudiya-dada temple in Babara, which comes between Rajkot and Bhavnagar. Performed our family traditions there, and back to Bhavnagar.


 Went for the movie Fugly in the evening with my little PhD sister Nidhi, it was a big mall indeed, movie was nice too! After that had some exotic hot bhaijias, tomato and capcicum bhaijias to be precise! :D Went to Takteshwar mahadev temple after that, weather was wondeful, cool and windy. Takteshwar is a temple on the hill, and you can see whole of Bhavnagar from it!


 Next morning started for Anand, first time visit for me. Reached there and meet mota mama and all. Anand and Valabh Vidyanagar are next to each other, Valabh Vidyanagar is the biggest educational hub of Gujarat, where a lot of NRI students come too! Visited my brother's college where he is Assistant HOD, the infrastructure and cleanliness of the college were really commendable! Really impressed!


 Went to Baroda after that. Played cards with Snehal, had Punjabi food, a relief after 9 days of aamras and Gujarati cuisine, also had Pav Usal there. Started by journey back home from Baroda! It was a wonderful refreshing trip, and a memorable one indeed!


 Coming back to the subject now, today we had Kaizen fair in office, and my idea was selected as one of the top 12 in my unit. I was given a stall and I was presenting my idea to all visitors and the judging panel. A new experience indeed. I was a bit nervous all day, but did all the required preparations, started getting good feedback from the audience and then it all went well!


 Also finally ordered Moto E for mom, form flipkart today. This has become like booking tatkal ticket in irctc...lol. Also today is Sparsh's 4th month birth anniversary, Kaizen fair achievement dedicated to you big guy!

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Happy One Month Anniversary Little Sparsh!

Dear Sparsh, 

So you are now one month old. You had your first outings in the sun. You had your first family picture with mum and dad in the backyard of your lovely home. You also celebrated your first holi. You may not know, but even though I am miles away from you, I do see your wonderful sweet pictures and videos every day. Your smile, especially the one with eyes close, makes our day. You are indeed the apple of our eye.


 Today I will talk about a man. A man, who failed at business in 1831, was defeated in run for legislature in 1832, failed again at business in 1833. His fiancé died in 1835, had a nervous breakdown in 1836. He lost run for congress in 1843, lost the same again in 1848. Lost senate race in 1855, lost VP race in 1856, and lost senate bid in 1859. Finally he was elected 16th President of USA in 1860, and he changed the course of American history.


 This is the story of the great Abraham Lincoln. He had so many failures in life, but he never gave up. He always kept trying; eventually he got the greatest achievement anyone could think of. All the failures that he had in life, only made him stronger and wiser.  

 Ups and downs are part of everyone’s life. Even you will face challenges in life. You may not be the best in everything, you may fail few times. Always remember, to never give up. Failures are just a stepping stone to success. Failures will just make you stronger, smarter and wiser. You will always have a very strong support system in the form of family and friends. Whenever in life, if you face any problems, and are not able to solve it, always ask help and opinion from mom and dad, don’t ever keep things inside you.


 Finally I would like to say, that as you are growing up, and as I see your pictures every day, I see a sense of wisdom in your eyes. You have great genes, it makes me happy, and I am sure you will do very well in life, and not encounter many failures!

Your Lovingly, 
Mamu.

Friday, February 21, 2014

The Champ is Home!

Dear Bhanju,

 Hello buddy! You are 3 days old now and coming to your home for the first time. It is a very special place; it will be your first home. It will be a home where you will grow up. A home which is special for all of us, it is also the first home that your parents owned in US.  You being part of it just make it extra special.

 I have been there, and I know each and every thing in there has being handpicked by your parents. It is a combination of modern amenities and antiquated artifacts. To be frank, sometimes it looks like a mini museum, but so it is. You will not find such a splendid home anywhere else.

 This home where you will live in has seen loads of happiness. The 2011 World Cup victory of India, the rehearsals of Diwali events, the Birthday celebrations, and many more… and now the home will see you. It has always been a lively and buzzing place, because of all the wonderful friends your parents have. You will meet them, and their kids will become your friends. So, one thing is for sure, you will have many friends, and I can assure they would be good friends too.

 You may not live forever in this home. You and your parents may move to a bigger home, a bigger city, or may be eventually you would go to some other city like Cambridge, MA or Pittsburg for higher studies. Always remember your first home, it is very special for all of us, and it is very special for you too! There is a NASA space shuttle toy I had got from Washington DC when I was there, now it is yours. One of your first toys, and first gift from mamu. I want to tell you, you may or may not become an astronaut, but whatever you do, and become in life, be the best in it, and enjoy it!

Yours lovingly,
Kartik Mamu.

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Welcome to the world, little champ!

Dear Bhanju,

 18th Feb, 2014.  That is the day you were born. A new member in our family, the next generation, and a bundle of joy and happiness. Let me introduce myself, I am your mama. This is the first letter I am writing to you, and I am sure there would be many more.

 I still remember the day your mom and dad got married. It has been more than 5 years. You are lucky to have such wonderful parents. I am confident that you would grow up to be a very well respected, and highly qualified man. I will always be there for you, I may not be in US, but you can always contact me for anything (including your homework ;) )

 We will relive our childhood days, with your childhood. We will play with you, we will study with you, we will be there for you, and be with you in every step of your life. Just remember one thing, do your homework on time, and don't watch a lot of TV.

 You are just one day old, you have a whole life waiting ahead of you. Life is a journey, never be disappointed with failure, always be patient, persistent and always listen to your parents. Your friends may tell you hundred things, but when in doubt always ask your parents. Remember they love you more than anything else, and will always be there for you.

 I would like to end with a quote. "Life isn't a matter of milestones, but of moments" - Rose Kennedy

Yours Lovingly,
Kartik Mamu