There are a lot of people like me who do frequent too and fro
from Mumbai to Pune and vice versa. Thanks to technology there are even more options
now to travel, mainly the blah blah cars service. You get a chance to meet a
lot of interesting people. Well last weekend was an experience worth mentioning
about, met and learnt from interesting people indeed.
I have had a few blah blah cars journey which were really good;
however this was not blah blah car this time. I was waiting at wakad looking
for a transport to go to Mumbai. I normally get down near airport, so ask drivers if they go till there, there was another person who also wanted to go
there, and so we started hunting for ride in pair!
After around 20mins, finally we got a ride. Our journey
started, it was a pretty silent ride till Vashi. There was a couple sitting at
the back (it was a SUV), they wanted to get down at Vashi and did not inform in
advance, we took the Vashi flyover, the girl started shouting. Clearly it was
her fault, driver did not argue back doing the sensible thing, and apologized,
and the couple got down after VAshi flyover.
After she got down we all started talking, with the 'it was
her fault' thing. Then we were continuously having talks till I got down. I
normally talk to drivers about how important it is to drive safely, etc. I
always make a point to keep an eye on driver, make sure he is driving properly.
Then it came to drunken driving, at that time he started to tell his story..
The driver was actually a constable on duty. He had a glorious
past, he lost all thanks to his drinking addiction. When he was in second year of engineering, he appeared for police constable test and came first. He got sanctioned at a very
good place; he was at the best possible place, having a boss who had lot of
power politically. I will not go in to details for confidentiality purpose. He
actually said: it was like he was flying in his career, everything was working
great for him!!
Then he started drinking, slowly he got addicted to it, he
lost his glorious post, he lost a lot of money, he lost his health. He went in
to rehab, he got better and came out, then he became over-confident, and got
addicted again, in all he went into rehab 4 times. Finally he was able to get
rid of his drinking habits, but by that time, he had lost a lot in life, and his
family also suffered, but his brothers were always there to show him the correct
path.
Due to good work in his glorious career, he had earned 3
flats, he had sold one of it for want of money to drink, still he has 2 flats. He
is also the owner of the car we were riding in, he did not need to do so much driving, but he
said he had lost a lot and he wanted to cover up in his life. He wanted to work
hard and buy more cars, and earn more. He has 2 daughters, both are studying,
and he works hard for his and his family's bright future.
There was another guy sitting behind, listening to all this,
he asked him what happens in rehab. The driver said, the person who is addicted
to drinking forgets everything, in rehab they teach him everything right from
brushing your teeth, cutting your nails, etc. They bring the person to his teen
position, where a person has to choose between 2 paths. It is an opportunity to
choose the right path and live a good life. Normally in teens we are confused
and easily get tempted to do the wrong things by seeing others. Peer pressure is
also there, it is important to take the right decision when you are at that
age, and you need your parents for guidance, and you need to listen to them.
Well he didn’t say all of above, some of it is added by me here! Anyways, he did
raise this point, and it encouraged me to write about him, and about this trip.
The guy sitting at the back also had a small apparent issue.
He had ordered a cake from a site the day before, hoping it will be delivered by
midnight, but it was still not delivered the next day till 6pm.He called a lot
of times to the site, still no progress and he finally got pissed off. He
contacted his lawyer, and is going to file a case against the cake company. I
was pretty surprised seeing the last part, as such thing I had only seen in the
movies, and read in newspapers happening abroad. He told me consumer laws are
pretty strict now, and consumer had a lot of power. He was someone who knew a
lot about laws, as he was an entrepreneur related to field of manpower
onshoring, and was affiliated to government of India. He told a lot of interesting
things, some of it I did not know. Learnt a lot from him too!!
So that was the wonderful journey I had, this is one of the
many reasons I like travelling, you meet interesting people and hear
interesting stories!!
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